I often struggle with talking about love in a Biblical, 'agape' sense. I'm willing to bet many of you all know what I mean. Most times when you talk about how a Christian should love God and love people, the hearers tend to nod their head in a "yea, yea, we know" sort of way. I do this all the time. I KNOW I'm supposed to live a life of true, Godly, agape love, but how successful am I in carrying that out? If you're like me, you don't really love like you should. Of course, I (try to) love my wife, brother, parents, extended family, friends, etc. with 100% effort, but even then I come up short. How then can we begin to live a life of love to the world around us, and particularly those in our lives that are not easy to love?
2 Peter 1:5-7 says, "For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowlege; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love."
To fully understand what Peter is saying here, we have to examine the context of this passage. First, verse 5 begins with, "For this very reason..." - which refers to verses 3-4 which says, "His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness. Through these He has given us His very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. For this very reason..."
**It is only because we have been made alive in Christ by his grace through faith that we can live a life of godliness! In redeeming us He has given us all the tools and abilities and desires needed to live a life that glorifies Him!
"For this reason" -- that God has SAVED US as given us NEW LIFE-- we should dedicate our lives to glorify HIM by adding to our faith goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, brotherly kindness, and love.
The second aspect of the context of 2 Peter 1:5-7 is the verse immediately following, which says, "For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ."
**We dedicate ourselves to grow in these godly attributes because they are the means by which God uses us to advance His Kingdom!
Let's focus once again on the issue of love. So far we have discussed two major factors as to why love is an integral aspect of the Christian life: 1- God has graciously redeemed us and given us new life equipped with the tools, ability, and desires needed to live a that glorifies Him. 2- These godly attributes (including love) are the means by which God uses us to advance His Kingdom. The Question now is, "How does my life reflect these biblical truths?" Am I actively growing in my faith? Am I living a life of love?
Oswald Chambers in My Utmost for His Highest exhorts believers on this same topic. I'll leave you with his challenging words:
Love is an indefinite thing to most of us; we don’t know what we mean when we talk about love. Love is the loftiest preference of one person for another, and spiritually Jesus demands that this sovereign preference be for Himself (see Luke 14:26 ). Initially, when "the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit" ( Romans 5:5 ), it is easy to put Jesus first. But then we must practice the things mentioned in 2 Peter 1 to see them worked out in our lives.
The first thing God does is forcibly remove any insincerity, pride, and vanity from my life. And the Holy Spirit reveals to me that God loved me not because I was lovable, but because it was His nature to do so. Now He commands me to show the same love to others by saying, ". . . love one another as I have loved you" ( John 15:12 ). He is saying, "I will bring a number of people around you whom you cannot respect, but you must exhibit My love to them, just as I have exhibited it to you." This kind of love is not a patronizing love for the unlovable— it is His love, and it will not be evidenced in us overnight. Some of us may have tried to force it, but we were soon tired and frustrated.
"The Lord . . . is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish . . ." ( 2 Peter 3:9 ). I should look within and remember how wonderfully He has dealt with me. The knowledge that God has loved me beyond all limits will compel me to go into the world to love others in the same way. I may get irritated because I have to live with an unusually difficult person. But just think how disagreeable I have been with God! Am I prepared to be identified so closely with the Lord Jesus that His life and His sweetness will be continually poured out through Me? Neither natural love nor God’s divine love will remain and grow in me unless it is nurtured. Love is spontaneous, but it has to be maintained through discipline.
